A man that I consider a personal hero here in Atlanta, several years my senior, holds monthly "Full Moon Massages" based on Body Electric teachings and requiring that participants have done the BE weekends so that their intent is well focused. In order to create the group you want, you may want to put some safe limitations on it like that. The only exclusivity would mean that your participants would feel safe and not that their involved in something that might seem subject to predators.

It might be wise to have a regular space as my friend, George does. Since he focuses on BE-related things, several of the men bring in massage tables. Amazing how many of us have those whether we're body workers or not. I think the furniture seems to act like individual altars for some reason. There's no denying that the atmosphere helps promote the feeling you want. Though not that sitting around on sheet-covered sofas and chairs wouldn't be wonderful, but to set it apart from something that's viewed as just a jack-off party, would be helpful. I'll be the first to admit, that I love a good jack-off party, so I'm not getting pissy here.

Good luck with this. I really hope that you have great success. Sorry you're so far away. I'd like to know you better. And I'd also like to introduce you to George here in Atlanta. He's a retired dermatologist and to me is the sexiest senior I've ever met.

Watchdog, you and I seem to be the only one's itnerested in this kind of work. Here is copy of what I have said elsewhere and hopefully someone will respond. I mean this is alternative gay people, right?

I've put out notice in my area for this sort or tribal group of sexual improvisation around new forms of intimacy and ecstasy and have 65 signed up, so there is a need out there to explore this stuff. I am having my first gathering at my house this Sunday so I will let you know how it goes. I have emphasized that this is about the group energy and not about individual sex - its not a fuck and go sort of sex party. There are those here, where married and closeted men can go to have sex with men and not disturb their little worlds, but this is not that at all. I want guys to get vulnerable, REALLY naked, intimate and open them up and CHALLENGE them, so it rocks their world. I want transformation and growth not this fucking impersonal "gotta find a hole for my dick to fill" sort of sex. Shit, you might as well just stay home and masturbate.